Saturday, October 11, 2008

Jilli, Jilli, Quite Contrary

Almost every conversation with Jilli involves an argument these days. There are some that end in time outs and tears but others that are just silly. I was nursing Rory before bed and I could hear Jilli and Jeff debating the merits of the darkness outside. "Its NOT dark outside." (from Jilli, about 100 times). Jeff insisted it is, but I think Jilli may have won.

Maybe she is on track to follow in my lawyerly footsteps? She may have to refine her cross-examination techniques but she can wear me down these days. "Really, your shoes are on the right feet? Fine."

Just now Jilli came to tell me goodnight. I told her I had a great day with her and how much fun we are going to have on our trip to the beach tomorrow. Her response? "No, Its NOT going to be fun." Sigh.

I know this is a normal part of development. I know she will have a great day tomorrow, just like she did today. I know this phase will pass just as all the others have. In the meantime, maybe I should work on my trial skills with her. She's as tough a witness as I've ever had.

(This 2 year old would strike fear in the most hardened of trial lawyers....no?)

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